Figuring Out What Makes You Happy

This is the problem I am having. It can actually be considered the struggle of an optimist- of a person who tries to pay more attention to the good then the bad- because I’ve always eventually been content with my life. Could this be considered “settling”? I hope not, but it’s possible. I really enjoy making the best of the worst.

Now it’s time for me to do what I want. The BIG commitment. I have to pick a job that may lead to a career. This isn’t just a summer job, but something I will, or at least should, live with for at least a year.

I did the wine tasting thing, it’s fun, but growth in that is very difficult. I think I would like something that involves communications/events/marketing. Let’s see where this takes me, shall we?

Not Very Impressive

You know what’s not very impressive? People who think they know everything. “Think” being the key word here. If you do actually know everything, then tell me to shut up, but come on people! Tone down the superiority.

Think about it this way.. To me, I think know-it-alls are actually worse than ignorant people. Why? Because ignorant people can sometimes accept that they’re not always correct. Know-it-alls just don’t care! These people think everything they say is right and are reluctant to accept that they can be wrong. So if you are one of these people, stop, please.

My rant is now over.

 

 

When All Else Fails.. Just Be Happy

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There are so many things in this world that can make a person upset, sad or angry. In fact, sometimes, it feels like that’s all there is. And you know what? Shit happens. (Excuse my French.) However, it’s my philosophy that sometimes, you just have to be happy. Pretending to be happy may actually make you happy. It’s an odd feeling, however it works. I’ve known so many people that have gone through VERY rough situations because they kept up a good attitude. The best example of this is my aunt, who managed to fight stage 3/4 cancer for 5 YEARS!

So, when all else fails, be happy!!! There are always worse things and sometimes what you think is a big deal at the time, ends up being just a small bump in the road, depending on how you think about it.

YOU CAN DO IT!

The Value of a Good Walk

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Imagine your drive to work or to school. You recognize the streets, some landmarks and that’s it. Now try walking some of that. I bet you’ll miss the turn, or not recognize the area. This has happened to me. I did it once when I had to walk the 3 miles it was to school because my car broke down. It seemed easy enough to drive, but when I walked, I almost didn’t make the right turn.

When you’re walking, you can absorb almost everything. Slowing the commute down gives more of an appreciation of your surroundings. Things can become more beautiful or even uglier than you thought. It’s really amazing. Try taking a walk now and then. Get outside and soak in your surroundings. You may be surprised.

I did a walk here in my grandparents neighborhood. It’s a little lake community where all the houses are 100% different and the properties are all unique. It’s quite the walk.

Just feeling insightful, that’s all.

In fact, I was 6 feet away from a deer on my last one! Those animals are cute!

Oh. My. Gosh. That’s literally perfection.

“Perfect” is a relative term. In fact, according to Merriam-Webster, the top three “perfect” definitions are…

: having no mistakes or flaws

: completely correct or accurate

: having all the qualities you want in that kind of person, situation, etc.

Did you notice that in the third definition, it mentions “you”? I bet it didn’t register. Perfect can be such a relative term. The perfect body, the perfect house, the perfect life, the perfect children, etc. etc..

This post is simply to remind you that “perfect” shouldn’t even be a commonly used word. To me, “perfect” is like the overused word “literally.” The exaggerated use of words is a linguistic marvel that most people have come to experience over the past, I’d say, 15 years or so. The internet probably has a lot to do with this.

The perfect this and the perfect that is subjective. I think the important thing here is that I don’t care what most people think. My idea of perfect is not other people’s definitions of perfect and I am so very okay with that. Live life the way YOU think is perfect! :)

Simply a reminder….

Off to My Grandparent’s House I Go

One of the hardest things to remember when life hands you lemons, is to not freak the hell out and stress out about everything. I say this with four years of experience behind me (most people have more experience), that it is so easy to forget that life isn’t all about what you’re supposed to do, it’s about what makes you happy.

This summer, I have been struggling with the thought that I have no more college ahead of me. I am done. I have to get a job, make some money, move out of my parent’s house, and become independent. The motivation I have to do this is high, however, it really isn’t as easy as it sounds. In the midst of all of this, my parents thought that I should take my much younger brother up to my grandparent’s house for some time. At first, I didn’t want to. It felt like I would be wasting time with whatever I was doing to try to move out. But, in reality, I didn’t have much going on in my life, so I acquiesced.

As soon as I arrived (a few days ago), my body relaxed. My mind was able to do some mental yoga and relieve some stress, and my thoughts went from stressful, to mostly nothing at all. It’s fantastic. I’d like to clarify that thinking about nothing is great… For short periods of time. In fact, that’s a huge reason why I go to the gym! I don’t have to worry about all this nonsense that is typically going through my head besides how hard I’m breathing. (I am a terrible runner, so I breathe like a dying dog and am generally self-conscious about it!!)

Staying at my grandparents is like staying at a family-run resort that’s generally free. So why I didn’t really want to go in the first place almost confuses me now. It’s great. It’s what family should be for. This is truly my happy place.  Find your happy place!!

 

 

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Don’t Forget Your Camera

This silly little post is for those people out there who love to party! I guess. I should say that this post is for people who do fun things and always forget to take pictures of themselves and others.

Currently, I am the largest advocate that life shouldn’t pause for the perfect photo/video opportunity, but there is something special about a quick, even candid, picture. Throughout my years I have learned that technology is unreliable, so I’ve come into this habit of printing my pictures after every adventure. They really don’t cost too much. Then I buy a cheap album, and I’m done! Those photos will be around for as long as I am (hopefully). I keep backups on a USB, but there’s something wonderful about holding a real picture.

I used to always forget to snap a picture here and there, but I’ve become much better at this. It’s made my life so much better! There are even photobooks now! Yes, they can be expensive, but PRO TIP! Walgreens photo department almost always has VERY GOOD internet sales. All you do is create/order online and you can have the photos delivered or pick them up in store. It’s simply fantastic. I look through all my old albums and can remember most of them.

Happy photo printing!!